First Impressions aren't everything. But . . . they could be.
My family is moving in two weeks, and I've never been so excited in my life. I have lived in the same house (the same bedroom!) my whole life, and change means adventure. Best of all, I'm looking forward to making new first impressions on people. Maybe then I can be free to be my true self. You see, when I was a sophomore I was judgmental, somewhat shy, and highly sensitive. I've changed more in the last two years than any other two years of my life. Now I love to be teased, I do my best to love everyone without judging them, and I'm a zany, outgoing nut. The only problem is that all the people that knew me as a sophomore don't realize I've changed, so they still fell like they have to walk on egg shells around me, and when I act any differently it only catches them off guard. Well, that's okay; being stuck as the old me isn't the worst thing in the world . . . but it won't be long now! bwah-ha-ha-ha.
Speaking of first impressions, I'm making a plan. For the first month after I move, I'm going to make a point to record my first impressions of the new neighbors and church members in as much detail as possible. Why? Because it will give me such great material for nice notes later! For example, looking back over my high school career, I wish I had written down the identity of the first person who said hi to me on that first, awkward day of school. What would it mean to someone now if I walked up to them at graduation and said, "You were the first person to welcome me three years ago and I will always remember you for that. It meant so much to me that I wrote in my journal, and I also wrote, 'I could instantly tell that this girl was exceptionally bright and intelligent.' Well, my prediction could not have been more correct! You will bless people with your kind spirit throughout your life!"
Unfortunately, I didn't do anything of the sort back then. But thinking outside the box means learning from mistakes.
Your positive attitude should make this move a pleasant and rewarding experience.
ReplyDeleteI like that idea, That makes me wonder what I thoght of someone that first day, or who the first person that talked to me was? good idea!
ReplyDeleteThis seems like a great idea. Very inspring. I've moved five times in the last two years, I wish I would have read this before that. I think it would have really helped my outlook.
ReplyDeleteThis is very interesting. Love the topic great blog!
ReplyDeleteI have moved a few times in my life. I dreaded it every time, but each time I have learned something more about myself when going through that change. The experiences I've had with diferent types of people helped me find who I am and what I want in my friendships with people. I hope everything goes well for you!
ReplyDeleteI really like how you mention judging. So many people are so quick to judge. It's not their fault it what just the way they were raised. I know I judge people very fast, I can't really help it, but I give them chances to prove me wrong. I guess that's my way of making my wrong right. If that even makes sense. I really like your posts
ReplyDeleteThis is a pretty good topic, got to read more.
ReplyDeleteI like this topic
ReplyDeleteFirst impressions are very important for everything!
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